The 13 best lesbian sex toys, vibrators and dildos for your enjoyment in 2021

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Looking for the best lesbian sex toys ( spice things up as we launch into this crazy stressful year? We have good news. Whether you’re on a budget or you’re ready to splurge, there are plenty of options to choose from.

The right sex toy can be an instant turn-on, but with so many options, figuring out which one is right for you can feel like a daunting task. While many sex toys are available for different genders and identities, finding the right one is important for lesbian couples who want to avoid phallic-shaped toys.

That’s why Teen Vogue asked lesbians and gay-identified people about their favorite toys that give them mind-blowing orgasms. Just remember to clean your toys before and after use.

New Comers Strap-On and Dildo Set
As its name implies, this little strap-on is perfect for beginners who are curious about strap-on play.

“It’s the first thing my girlfriend and I used,” Amanda, who prefers to be identified only by her first name, tells Teen Vogue. “I like it because it’s not too big and not too small, especially when trying things out for the first time. I sometimes get a little anxious with a new person, so it’s good for easing things in.”

Newcomer strap-on and dildo set
If you’re into clitoral stimulation, the name of this waterproof toy might be helpful to you.” I mean, everyone needs the Satisfyer Pro 2, IMO,” Ellen Jones, an activist, speaker and writer who identifies as a lesbian, tells Teen Vogue. “I think it’s probably God’s gift to people with clitorises, honestly,” she adds.” The first time I used it, I squirted for the first time ever, in two minutes. I, for one, am on antidepressants and usually can’t come. …… I highly, highly recommend it.”

Satisfyer Pro 2 Air Pulse Clitoral Stimulator
Adorime Dual Head Vibrating Dildo
This clever USB rechargeable waterproof toy is a real winner when it comes to flexibility, both figuratively and literally. This double-headed vibrating strapless dildo is 14.8 inches long and comes with a remote control for use alone or with a partner, depending on your needs. This double-headed vibrating strapless dildo comes with a remote control and can be used alone or with a partner, depending on your needs. You can use one of the seven vibration modes to make one side vibrate for a low-key session, or turn them both on for some exploration – the choice is yours.

Adorime Realistic dual-headed vibrating G-spot dildo.
Sh! Wirly Girly 6 slim dildo.
For our UK peeps, Jones highly recommends this slim dildo, which was her “first dildo and is still my favorite,” Jones told Teen Vogue. Jones said, “It’s not particularly wide, but as someone who doesn’t have much penetrative sex, it’s perfect for me.” Jones added that it’s made by an independent sex toy store with a “lovely and knowledgeable” staff who “customize dildos in their lab, and you can usually watch them in their store while they make you a mint tea.”

Wirly Girly 6 ultra-thin dildo
Le Wand Rechargeable Vibrating Massager
I personally own this and considering it has given me the most intense orgasms I’ve ever experienced, it’s probably my favorite sex toy I’ve ever owned. Available in pearl white, gray and black, with 10 speeds and 20 vibration modes, this classic wand is very powerful and provides concentrated vibrations in its head – you can purchase silicone attachments to make it a sensual massager or a vibrating dildo, depending on your mood.

Le Wand Rechargeable Vibrating Massager
Cordless vibrator massager Yarosi
If you don’t have a lot of money to spend, there are great options that don’t break the bank, like this little wand massager. Another gay reader, Laura Beth, called the wand “a crowd pleaser.” It’s cheap. It works. It’s waterproof. I love it.” She says she “uses it with partners of different genders.”” I also like to take it into the bathroom,” she added.” And it’s also a muscle massager, so when I get a kink in my neck, I can vibrate it out.”

Yarosi Therapy Stick Massager
“The Womanizer is the first toy that really felt like it needed to be on the nightstand for easy access,” Julie Logan tells Teen Vogue. “I’ve had interesting conversations with gay friends about their sex toys and relationships-the passive aggression when a toy is returned with your other stuff, the passive aggression you have with someone you no longer primarily use with association with something you use together – but I’ve never heard of Womanizer being abandoned.”

Tired of all the fancy stuff? Want a toy that feels intuitive to use? This super cute, ergonomic, palm-sized vibrator from Dame Products has no internal structure, making it soft and flexible to conform to your needs as you (and/or your partner) move around. This silent Pom fits perfectly in the palm of your hand (get it?).
Tired of all the fancy stuff? Want a toy that feels intuitive to use? This super cute, ergonomic, palm-sized vibrator from Dame Products has no internal structure, making it soft and flexible enough to conform to your needs as you (and/or your partner) move around. This silent Pom fits perfectly in the palm of your hand (get it?).

Say hello to Pom, a handheld vibrator under $100 that’s flexible enough to bend with your body, and you’ll find something to stimulate you.
Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace
Who says a vibrator can’t be a super cute accessory? The pendant on this 26-inch stainless steel chain may be small, but it’s powerful. logan recommends the Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace because of the ~surprise~ factor.” I bought this on impulse a few years ago and it was surprisingly convenient. It’s a little strong for direct contact at times, but it’s a fun surprise to bring out during foreplay [for] other parts of the body.”

Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace
Pure Romance Shore Thing Dual Action Vibrator
This waterproof, double-action beauty is the sleekest of the rabbit vibrators, with six speed and pulse modes and a Hydrathrill motor that “spreads best through liquids with ultra-penetrating, low-frequency vibrations” (love is made of 75% water!). .” This vibrator was given to me as a joke when my ex and I split over COVID-19,” gay reader Kenzie Myers told Teen Vogue. “It’s WILD and intimidating, but definitely enhances a sexually charged Zoom session.”
Things to do on the shore
If you’re tired of losing the wires to your vibrator or running out of batteries in the middle of a steamy session, may we suggest this modern work of art? Okay, it’s a glass dildo, but it sure looks like it belongs in an upscale studio. Each hand-blown, hypoallergenic, body-safe glass rod is not only aesthetically pleasing, but “made for play” so you and your partner can gaze at it while enjoying the hazy afterglow.
Tracey Cox Super Sexy Glass Dildo Set
If you already know you like the feel of glass sex toys, Aubrey Blanche suggests investing in this beautiful set.” I’m a big fan of the Tracey Cox double-headed dildo because it offers so much control and tactile feedback for penetrating partners, with or without bondage,” Blanche told Teen Vogue. “It’s also easier to give super sexy feedback as a receptive partner. I always find the double-headed ones feel more connected than the single-headed ones, and I like that [the double-headed ones] allow you to hit your partner’s G-spot, even if you’re penetrating your partner.”

Tracy Cox Super Sexy Glass Dildo Set
Unfettered Baby Benders
To end this sexy list, we’re going to end (hey) strong with Unbound Babes’ super flexible Bender, a super cute, candy-colored, double-ended internal vibrator. At 7.5 inches long, you can twist this curved, 10-speed vibrator to hit any angle you want. One reviewer called it “addictive in a good way – even writing about this one makes me [want] to use it after I’m done here.” The good thing is that it sports an increased battery life: from 45 minutes to two hours, depending on how you use it.